It’s 3:00 AM. Your newborn is asleep in their bassinet, but you are wide awake, phone in hand—a scenario fueled by anxiety and poor sleep quality—scrolling through parenting forums. You just noticed your baby’s left arm seems a little less active than their right. Or maybe when you pull them to sit up, their head still flops back, despite what the milestone app says. As a result, you’re down a rabbit hole of terrifying terms, searching for birth injury red flags, wondering about subtle birth injury signs, and what Cerebral Palsy or Erb’s Palsy really means.
Indeed, this scenario is familiar to countless new parents, who are already navigating the challenges of healing after childbirth. You go to a well-child visit armed with observations and a deep, gnawing anxiety: “Is this normal?”
The answer is almost always, “Let’s talk about it.”
This article helps pull back the curtain on the clinical process. It explains why a pediatrician might not share your immediate alarm, why the “wait and see” approach can be a powerful diagnostic tool (and not a dismissal), and ultimately, how you, as a parent, can become the most vital member of the diagnostic team. We will focus on two of the most-feared conditions, Cerebral Palsy and Erb’s Palsy, as they perfectly illustrate this diagnostic puzzle.
“Wait and See”: Identifying Birth Injury Red Flags
To a worried parent, “wait and see” can sound like a dismissal. However, in a clinical setting, it is the exact opposite: it is an active, watchful process of data collection. A single observation—a floppy arm, a stiff leg—is just one data point, not *yet* a definitive birth injury red flag.
Clinicians are trained to distinguish between two main categories of symptoms:
- Benign Developmental Variations: These are quirks and phases that look alarming but are part of a normal, wide spectrum of development. For instance, some babies are simply “floppier” (low muscle tone) or “stiffer” (high muscle tone) than others and develop perfectly normally.
- Persistent Neurological Red Flags: These are symptoms that do not resolve, or that fall clearly outside the normal developmental spectrum. For example, a hand preference in a 3-month-old is a red flag (they should be using both hands equally). In contrast, a hand preference in an 18-month-old is normal.

The entire job of a pediatrician in the first year of life is to collect enough data points over time to see which category your child’s symptoms fall into. Are they just visiting a “variation,” or are they living in the territory of persistent birth injury red flags?
Benign Developmental Variations
- “Floppy” Head: Head lag is normal in newborns. Strength builds over the first 3-4 months.
- Jerky Movements: A newborn’s nervous system is immature. Startles and uncoordinated, jerky movements are common.
- Occasional Scissoring: Babies experiment with leg movements. Brief scissoring or crossing of legs is common.
- “Lazy” Arm: A baby may temporarily favor one side as they explore.
- Curled Hands: Newborns keep their hands fisted much of the time. This should fade by 3-4 months.
Persistent Red Flags
- Persistent Head Lag: Significant head lag after 4 months.
- Extreme Tone: Consistently very stiff (hypertonia) or very floppy (hypotonia, like a “rag doll”).
- Persistent Scissoring: Frequent, stiff crossing of the legs, especially after 4-6 months.
- Early Hand Preference: Consistently using only one hand before 6-12 months.
- Persistent Fisting: One or both hands remain tightly fisted after 4 months.
Cerebral Palsy: Tracking Red Flags Over Time
Cerebral Palsy (CP) is the most common motor disability in childhood. It’s a broad term for a group of neurological disorders caused by damage to the developing brain before, during, or shortly after birth. This damage affects a child’s ability to control their muscles, impacting movement, posture, and balance.
“Early diagnosis of CP is based on clinical concerns arising from a motor delay… and a neurologic examination that includes an assessment of muscle tone, reflexes, and motor skills.”
— American Academy of PediatricsHere is the central challenge: CP is rarely diagnosable at birth. The brain injury itself is non-progressive (it doesn’t get worse), but the symptoms of that injury change and evolve as the child’s brain matures. Therefore, clinicians are looking for a pattern of birth injury red flags that emerges over the first 6 to 12 months of life.
What Doctors Look For (The CP Pattern)
When a pediatrician is in “wait and see” mode for suspected CP, they are tracking three specific things:
1. Milestone Delays
First, this is the most well-known sign. A single missed milestone is not usually a concern. A pattern of missed motor milestones is a major birth injury red flag.
- By 3-4 Months: Not pushing up on arms during tummy time, significant head lag.
- By 6-7 Months: Not rolling over in either direction, cannot bring hands together or to mouth.
- By 9-10 Months: Not sitting without support.
- By 12-14 Months: Not crawling, or crawling in an unusual, lopsided way (e.g., “commando crawl” using only one side of the body).
2. Persistent Early Reflexes
Second, babies are born with a set of “early reflexes” that help them survive (like the sucking reflex). These are controlled by the brainstem and are supposed to disappear as the higher-functioning parts of the brain (the cortex) take over. When they don’t disappear, it can tell clinicians the cortex may be damaged. According to MedlinePlus, if these reflexes don’t fade, it may be a sign of a problem with the baby’s brain or nervous system.
- Asymmetrical Tonic Neck Reflex (ATNR): The “fencing pose.” When you turn the baby’s head to one side, the arm on that side should straighten and the other arm should bend. This reflex should fade by 6 months. Consequently, if it doesn’t, it can make it very difficult for a baby to learn to roll over or bring their hands to their mouth.
- Moro (Startle) Reflex: Should fade by 4-6 months.

3. Abnormal Muscle Tone: A Core Red Flag
Finally, this is the hardest one for parents to spot but the most telling for a clinician. It’s not just “floppiness”; it’s a specific pattern of abnormal tone.
- Asymmetry: This is a critical red flag. Does one side of the body feel much stiffer or looser than the other? Does the baby only reach with their right hand while the left remains fisted?
- Spasticity (Hypertonia): This isn’t just “stiffness.” It’s a specific, velocity-dependent increase in muscle tone. A clinician will feel for a “catch” when moving a baby’s limb quickly. Parents may notice their baby’s legs are extremely stiff and cross like scissors.
- Hypotonia: This is the “rag doll” floppiness. The baby feels like they could “slip through your hands” when you pick them up under their arms.
No one of these signs means CP. But a pattern of all three—missed motor milestones, persistent early reflexes, and abnormal muscle tone—is what ultimately leads to a referral and a formal diagnosis.
Erb’s Palsy: Clear Sign, Unclear Prognosis
On the other hand, let’s switch gears to Erb’s Palsy. This is a form of brachial plexus injury. The brachial plexus is a network of nerves in the neck that controls the entire arm, from shoulder to fingertips. This injury typically happens during a difficult delivery, especially if the baby’s shoulder gets stuck (shoulder dystocia) and the neck is stretched, damaging those nerves.
“Neonatal brachial plexus palsy… is an injury to the network of nerves that controls movement in the arm. It is most often associated with shoulder dystocia during vaginal birth.”
— National Center for Biotechnology Information (NCBI)Erb’s Palsy Red Flags vs. CP
Unlike CP, the initial sign of Erb’s Palsy is often not subtle. It’s usually obvious in the nursery, hours after birth.
- The Sign: The baby’s arm hangs limply at their side. They do not move it.
- The Posture: The classic sign is the “Waiter’s Tip” pose: the arm is turned inward (adducted), the elbow is straight, the forearm is pronated (palm down/back), and the wrist is bent.
- The Reflex: The Moro (startle) reflex will be absent on the affected side.

Why Still “Wait and See”?
If the sign is so obvious, why would a clinician “wait and see”? The reason is that while the injury is clear, the severity is completely unknown. The “wait and see” here is not to see if there is an injury, but to see how well the nerves recover on their own.
Nerve injuries fall into a few categories:
- Neuropraxia (Stretch): The nerve is bruised or stretched but not torn. This is the most common type, and the vast majority (80-90%) of these babies will recover completely on their own within 3-4 months.
- Neuroma (Scar Tissue): The nerve tore and tried to heal, but scar tissue is blocking the signal.
- Rupture/Avulsion (Tear): The nerve is torn (ruptured) or pulled completely off the spinal cord (avulsion). These injuries will not heal on their own and will require specialized surgery (nerve grafts or transfers).
The “wait and see” period for Erb’s Palsy is a race against the clock. The clinical team, led by a neurologist and physical therapist, is watching for any sign of recovery. Is the bicep “firing”? Can the baby bend their elbow? If there is no significant recovery by 3-6 months, the team will move toward surgical options, as the window for successful nerve repair is best in the first year.
Your Role in Documenting Birth Injury Red Flags
It cannot be overstated: You are the expert on your child. A pediatrician is an expert on pediatrics, but they see your baby for 15-30 minutes every few months. You see them 24/7. You are the single most important data collector. In fact, the American Academy of Pediatrics states that parental concern about… development is a significant predictor of developmental disability.
However, to be an effective partner, you must learn to channel that worry—which can sometimes feel like more than just ‘baby blues’—into actionable data.
This is how you bridge the gap between parental anxiety and a clinical assessment of potential birth injury red flags.
1. The Power of Video
A common request from pediatricians is: film it.

A 30-second video of the “quirk” that’s worrying you—a potential birth injury red flag—is worth 1,000 descriptions. It’s objective, inarguable, and provides clear data. This is why the CDC’s “Learn the Signs. Act Early.” campaign urges parents to share concerns and videos with their child’s doctor.
- Worried about a lopsided crawl? Film it.
- Concerned about a persistent startle reflex? Film it.
- Noticing one hand is always fisted? Film it during tummy time, in the high chair, and while reaching for a toy.
This video evidence is the single most powerful tool you have. It shows the pediatrician exactly what you see, in context, and bypasses any confusion over terminology.
2. Clinical vs. Emotional Journaling
Documenting is key. However, how you document matters. An emotional journal (“I’m so worried about his arm, he seemed so sad today“) is useful for journaling for mental health, but a clinical journal is useful for an evaluation.
Instead, be specific and factual.
- Instead of: “His left arm is weak.”
- Try: “Oct 22: During tummy time (10 min), pushed up with right arm 5 times, pushed up with left arm 0 times. Reached for red rattle 3/3 times with right hand, 0/3 times with left.”
3. Parent-Provider Toolkit
When you go to your appointment, being organized is key. The toolkit below helps you prepare your observations and your questions.
4. Asking for Referrals
If your “wait and see” period has passed and your gut, backed by your video and journal, still says something is wrong, it’s time to “ask.”
You can respectfully say, “I appreciate your watchful waiting, and I have continued to document this as you suggested. I am still very concerned. To help rule out a larger issue, I would like a referral for a specialist evaluation.”
These are the key referrals:
- Pediatric Neurologist: This is the “brain detective.” They will conduct a much more detailed neurological exam. They are the ones who will likely order brain imaging, such as an MRI or CT scan. This is often the definitive step for CP, as it can show the original brain injury (e.g., damage from oxygen deprivation, called periventricular leukomalacia).
- Pediatric Physiatrist (PM&R) or Orthopedist: Focusing on muscle, nerve, and bone function, these specialists are critical for managing Erb’s Palsy and the spasticity associated with CP.
- Developmental Pediatrician: A developmental pediatrician focuses less on the cause and more on the function. They will assess the child’s global development—motor, social, verbal, and cognitive—and help create a long-term treatment plan.
- Early Intervention (EI): This is the single most important call a parent can make. In the United States, under the federal Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA), every child under age 3 is entitled to a free developmental evaluation. You do not need a doctor’s referral, nor do you need a formal diagnosis. If you have concerns, you can call your state’s EI program and self-refer. They will send therapists to your home to evaluate your child and, if they qualify, begin free services like physical, occupational, and speech therapy.

The Importance of Acting Early
“Acting early can make a real difference in a child’s development… getting them the services they need helps them learn important skills and improve their development and learning.”
— Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC)This last point is critical. Do not wait for a diagnosis to start therapy. If a child has clear motor delays, EI should be started immediately. If it turns out to be a benign variation, all that’s been done is giving the baby a developmental boost. If it is CP or a severe Erb’s Palsy, the family has capitalized on the most important window of brain plasticity.

From Anxiety to Advocacy
Parental intuition about birth injury red flags—that 3:00 AM anxiety—is a powerful tool. In fact, it is an evolutionary superpower. But it is not a diagnostic test. It is an alert system, designed to make you pay closer attention.
To be clear, a pediatrician’s job is to take that alert, honor it, and apply a systematic, scientific process. Your job is to help them by becoming the best data collector in the world, perhaps even considering a digital detox from endless online symptom searching to focus on clear observation.
Trust your gut when it tells you to “watch.” Use your phone and your journal to “document.” After that, partner with the pediatrician to “act.” Together, you move from fear to a plan. And a plan is the single best antidote to anxiety. It’s a key part of managing daily stress, allowing you to get back to the most important job: simply enjoying and loving your new baby, secure in your new holistic approach to family health.
Sources & References
- Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) – Facts About Cerebral Palsy.
- American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) – Providing a Primary Care Medical Home for Children and Youth With Cerebral Palsy.
- MedlinePlus – Newborn Reflexes.
- National Institute of Neurological Disorders and Stroke (NINDS) – Brachial Plexus Injuries Information.
- National Center for Biotechnology Information (NCBI) – Brachial Plexus Injuries.
- American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) – Promoting Optimal Development (Parental Concerns).
- Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) – “Learn the Signs. Act Early.” (Families).
- U.S. Department of Education – About the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA).
- Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) – Why Act Early if You’re Concerned? (Families).

